Ruth Jane

On April 10th, Ruthie Jane was given a name and a blessing by her Daddy..





Our little sweetheart is privileged to be named after one of the most wonderful people that has ever lived. Ruth Jane (the first) is my Grandma. I absolutely love and admire her. When I was little I used to sleep over all the time. She would make me a bed on the pink velvet couch that was at the foot of her bed and turn on a music box that had lit up flowers that changed colors. She and I made doll houses and clothespin dolls together listening to hawaiian music. She was everything a grandma should be. She was beautiful and wise to me. As a mom, I respect her even more now for the mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother she is. What I love most about her is how selfless she is. She would do ANYTHING for any of us.
She hasn't been doing very well the last few months, she can barely get out a whisper anymore. The last time she was able to talk to me on the phone was in November, and the only thing she was able to say was a whispered "I love you". I could tell how much effort it took her to say those three words and it meant the world to me.

me and Grandma Ruth when I was 7 months pregnant with Ruthie

Comments

grandma debi said…
Well, that brought a tear to my eye. Great pics, sweet words, and two beautiful "people" named Ruth Jane.
May 14, 2011 at 4:08 PM
Jenna said…
Hi Bella
My name is Jenna and I came across your site. U are a beautiful, courageous, strong and determined Fighter. U are a Brave Warrior,Smilen Champ and an Inspirational Hero.
I was born with a rare life threatening disease.
U have a great and beautiful little sister.
www.miraclechamp.webs.com
May 18, 2011 at 8:55 PM
likeschocolate said…
She is beautiful! Here is to many more wonderful occastions. Congratulations!
May 24, 2011 at 9:44 PM
Evie's Story said…
Oh she is SUCH a doll baby! Know you're treasuring every moment!
July 21, 2011 at 8:30 AM
Cason and Marie said…
She is the cutest Avery!!

Hope you guys are doing well! We are so sad we missed you when we were in California.

Ps. majority of Millie's headbands from Chelsea. I also make some too.
July 26, 2011 at 10:55 AM
The Silly Nilly Family said…
Awe. Congratulations! You have a beautiful growing family. So neat to see : )
August 6, 2011 at 2:19 PM
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